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December 03, 2005

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Essem

Out of the blue last summer, my mother, to whom I have been out for 20 years and who has met my two LTRs and who lived a long time in Chelsea NY and knows tons of queers, said to me that she didn't think I was really gay. I was so stunned I didn't know what to say. When I asked her about it the next day, she said she didn't want to talk about it.

I told my ex when I got back to town. He offered to visit Mummy and explain it to her in detail from his privileged perspective, but we decided that a maternal heart attack at this time was not a good idea.

What is this stuff about? Is it because I voted for Bush? I thought I was the only one whose family indulged in this kind of fantasy. I can see it as a denial response on the day you come out to them, but all this time time later? I have changed a great deal in my life, but once I "got it" that I was a homo, that has been as clear to me as sunshine.

john

Gotta love those Swedes, God knows I've smelled more than one sweaty t-shirt.

Downtown Lad

Well someone should tell Ace that he's a little behind the times. That article is from August and it was all over the blogosphere back then.

Yawn.

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